From Dad: Two Weeks Out

 This was originally posted on Ross's Facebook page on March 3rd, 2022 at 10:38 PM

Two weeks without you, Reese. Two weeks ago you were laying in my arms on the second floor at the hospital, but unfortunately your body began to give out and you would soon take your last breaths in your mom's arms. Your mom and I were and are still devastated losing you, but you blessed us by leaving peacefully on your own time. We will love and cherish you forever, little man.

This morning Sudie shared with me a clip from the podcast Pod Save America where one of the hosts shared his family's story about their recent loss very similar to our losing Reese. But he made an excellent point, about what to say to strangers when they ask if you have children. And as a development officer, I do get asked a lot. In his words, "What do you do? Lie? Or spill your (expletive) guts to a total stranger?" So in that spirit, I may as well start practicing.

Yes! We have a son, and his name is Reese. We love him and he's the light of our lives, but his time with us was way too short and we lost him after 5 days. But he will forever be our son and our first born, thank you for asking.

I was moved a few weeks back when Robbie Roper of Roswell HS passed away and we (Georgia Southern football) extended this same gesture. You never think it will be you, until you find it is you on the receiving end. We appreciate you and all the folks with Georgia Southern Athletics for remembering our Reese. Please also know how much we appreciate all of you who have sent your love, condolences, and the many forms of support for our family.

Reese, your mom and I love you so much and we miss you terribly. We know we will see you again, and I pray you continue to look out for our family. Thank you for making us parents.